Showing posts with label Giving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Giving. Show all posts

Monday, 2 November 2015

Selfless Acts


EMPATHY

Unselfish altruistic acts are undertaken when we have genuine concern for another's wellbeing. These selfless acts, where we are seemingly willing to put our necks on the line to help make another's life, are said to be hard-wired into our make-up. But, even a seemingly selfless action, could still be used for self gain in one way or other.

George Price was on a quest to find true Altruism. He found all kinds of arguments for why people do kind acts, but discovered to his dismay after conclusive research, that there is no true act of altruism (other than those remarkable actions taken by the Carnegie Heros perhaps?). He fought against his own calculations/research which pointed to the fact we have selfish interests at heart and embarked on a mission to do as much unselfish work to disprove his own theory.

He went out of his way to be a better human being, even offering up his own home to homeless, alcoholic and in some cases, violent individuals. These people all took advantage of his generosity and kindness, which he was aware of, but also happy to be disproving his theory at the same time. He continued until eventually, himself living on the streets, penniless and depressed, he took his own life.


Kindness
Price's suicide wasn't necessarily the result of his failure to prove that true altruism existed. He was suffering with Cancer and his refusal to take medicine would have been in part to blame for the ensuing depression. If true unselfish acts are really boiled down to genetic mathematics, then we must live up to the fact that helping others is for our own benefit. But having thoughts for other's wellbeing and acts of kindness undertaken for benefiting others, will be mutually rewarding and therefore, something we should all aim to experience more, if we are to have a well-balanced and healthy mindset. The act of giving is the greatest gift we give ourselves.

Thursday, 15 October 2015

Boozy Business


SOCIAL WORKING


We spend a lot of time with the people at work. And we all like to work with people we like being around. That's why socialising is key for getting and retaining business.

It's a fact. Booze wins business. The act of buying someone a drink,  having some decent chat when we've loosened up and getting to know someone beyond the pleasantries and becoming their 'friend' essentially, means we're more likely to get their business in future.

Calling up and arranging for a 'drink' is an easy way to get back into someone's frame of mind after a short absence. So, even though it's been my third night on the trot and I really didn't want any more beer, when I got asked to go down to the pub for a quick drink tonight, it was always going to be a yes to the boss. And a quick beeline to the bar for that first goodwill friendship gesture will mean a few favours and forgiven's are banked for more work to come further down the line.

Wednesday, 26 August 2015

Good deeds


BANK OF KARMA

Today, I visited the bank of karma. I hadn't intended to go there but I realised that the act I was playing out was way beyond the mention of money. I don't even know this person that well but I feel that the art of giving works best when it is to an unknown, or a relatively unknown at least.

So, to give hours of hard graft for a noble cause, means I've now deposited into the universal bank. If there is interest on this deed - great, but I have no need to draw on this for the foreseeable future and who knows if and when the dividends will be paid back. All I know is that my muscles ache but my soul feels soothed.